Parents affect their kids in so many ways they don’t even realize.
Ask somebody close to you this question: “You see my life, what do you think is most important to me?” I asked my sophomore year roommate this and he said “you really care about how people treat each other” I guess I’ll take that as a compliment. That is 100% influenced by my parents. They treated each other like shit, so I’m dealing with the consequences now.
People’s shitty and good tendencies might be from their parents. Ask them and ask yourself, “You see my life, what is most important to me?”