After 18, you’ve spent 90% of your time with your parents – according to Tim Urban. So when you visit home, be with them, sit with them, eat with them. They raised you. Yes, poorly. And yes you will still be with them. Yes they are fucked up in a lot of ways. You are too. And you will be as a parent. We didn’t get to choose our parents or what kind of home we lived in, so from now on, we will great something better.