What makes you unique? Name all your skills, quirks, etc. Does anybody else you know have those? Probably? Why are your friends friends with you? Do you bring something different to the friendship? Or do you bring something that everybody else brings? If that’s the case then that friendship isn’t going to last long. That friendship is probably out of community rather than love. I’m not saying you have to be a clown or be storybook weird. But stop living in the norm. Dive deep into the things that really make you who you are. Don’t be afraid of what other people think. Because other people just have the same ol boring friendships. And if you bring something new – that’s just one more reason to keep you around. What makes you different?